Everywhere you look, somebody has an opinion. Bill O’Reilly says that he is fair and balanced and then proceeds to pander to one side of the political and cultural aisle. Radio show host Rush Limbaugh spews vitriol hours a day in the name of saving the Republic but he sounds more like an inmate talking to himself than an intelligent source for insights you can trust. Even where I live, Sedona, Arizona-purported to be the spiritual center of the Universe-two sides of the City Council have drawn a line in the sand about how to replace a council member who resigned-appointed by Council or to be elected in a special election-and for how long the replacement council member will serve before needing to be reelected. Here in paradise there is a war brewing.
Will Rogers said opinions are like grudges, everybody has a few, best left to himself. I will weight in to say that opinions are really axes to grind with little room for sane and rational fair-mindedness. If all of us would pretend that we are back in school where we are learning about two sides of an issue, like in a debate, we would be able to come up with solutions that are more judicious and workable. Opinions begin with prejudices that are emotionally charged; oftentimes a reflection of what one feels is best for his enlightened self-interest, i.e. best for his pocketbook.
My commitment to those with whom I work is to clear away all the dirt and grime that they learned from childhood into adulthood-picked up from parents who don’t have a clue about being open-minded; how to look at both sides of an issue and then decide. We are all brainwashed about religion and politics and even hatred is inculcated dependent upon what region you were raised in. My suggestion to heal brainwash is to whitewash all the judgments that are floated as opinions and to start over with a clear mental pallet upon which to write your own balanced conclusions about things that matter.
The next time you have an uneducated opinion, you might want to keep it to yourself. Change you and you can change the world you touch.
Albert Clayton Gaulden is the founding director of the Sedona Intensive and author of You’re Not Who You Think You Are: A Breakthrough Guide to Discovering the Authentic You. For more information about Albert and Sedona Intensive visit http://www.sedonaintensive.com/.
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